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Sunday, July 31, 2011
Baby Sleep, I Sleep
This week has beenhectic, to say theleast,from looking after mydarlingbabyand hubby to studying for my driver’stheorytest to finishing up mycourseproject and working. All these would have been a piece of cake if not for my dear 10month old son’s new pastime “Sleeping late”. He decided to change his bedtimeto 1am for the past week, which has turned me into a zombie mummy.
It takes me back to the days he was 2weeks old when he woke up every 2 hours, and wepracticallygot no sleep. Once he got older welatertrained him on thecontroversiallet them cry it outsystemto sleep called "The Ferber method demystified", which worked when he was 4months for some time; soothing himself to sleep. Now he is 10month old and has decided no more luxury for mummy and daddy; its punishment time for all theeasysleep night we’ve had. He still has his naps during the day easily, but when night falls he decides its baby play time,youwould think he had enough of that at thebabyplaygroup butnohe wants me todoababyrapofitsybitsyspider on high volume by demonstrating with his favorite hand gestures. We doourbedtime routine (Take abatheat, brush, read and hopefullysleep).Then I tell him its bed time, but he insists on hisrapso, I do a quickitsybitsy, and take him to bed.It is when Iputhim in his cot that the drama starts; he wouldgofrom a low pitchcry, to a highpitchone, to squawking etc. (yeah Kamil cries asdifficultas it might seem to some of my friends).I tried petting him and putting him back, but hewon’thave it, so I end up putting him inourbed. It still takes him about 30minutes before falling asleep after doing his Spiderman’simpression he then ends at the edge of the bed snoring. So I decided to check out babycenter to see if other mums are experiencing the same thing, not surprising a lot of them were; especially the ones with 10 month old. (It seem like all the 10month old in theworlddecided not to sleep) Most parents said they used the cry it outapproachand then explained that itwasn’teasy, butit’swas worth it. Although I had tried thissystembefore and asitsaysyoumight have to try it a couple oftimesto see the result. So I decided to try it again on Thursday night. My beloved son cried for 50 minutes in a different tone. (I went in occasionally to calm him down, and offered him some water) In the end; he gave in and dosed off.To my surprise he slept through the night; and so did I (without having to sing hubby’s favoritehopefulsleeping song to him “you sleep, I sleep”). His cries have gotten shorter by the day now (Touchwood).After the first night, hedidn’twant to talk to me when he woke up, but when the milklady(me) brought food he was all smiles. Although thissystemiscontroversialin my opinion, I think a little tough lovewouldn’tdoyour baby any harm.Many child experts have proven it works so,parentsconsiderit if your child copes well.The stressful week allseemlike yesterday after I had awelldeserving full spa treatment courtesy of mylovelyhusband with a friend at essencewellness spa. (Best spa ever) HaaaaaaaablissI’m still floating.
Here, is aclipof experts on both sides of the argument explaining their views.Enjoy.
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